Any one can be A mother.It takes A real women to be A MOMMY.Same with father and daddy.My mother walked out on me.My grandmother was A great mommy to me.She was there for me always.Here is a easy one. what make a true %26amp; loving mom-mother..dad-daddy? is it some1 that walks out on a child????
i know one also...i am raising her son,he has been with me for 6 years..these sorry women are just that sorry,to me they aren't even mothers.i know dogs who stay and nurture their young.
maybe she did that because that's what was best for child --- My husband knew a man that killed himself because he had strong urges to molest --- he left a letter to his wife stating how he couldn't allow that to happen and that was why he shot himself.... to protect their toddler.
This can be looked at both ways. If she gave her chld to a home that could take care of it better that she can then she did do good, but if she just abandoned the child with nowhere to go then she should be ashamed of herself
She's insane. A truly good mother never thinks she's a good mother.
1. If you abandon your child coz you can't handle responsibility of raising a child then you are the worst mother/father ever.
2. But if you gave your child to someone else because you think that you can't raise the child properly, that the person you gave your child is able to love her/him, support her/him (financially) and raise her/him much better than you do, then you're just being a reasonable mother/father.
Well in my opinion I think she is wrong. Unless she did it for the child's benefit. Like if she couldn't care for the child properly and wanted the child to have a better life. But if she walked out on the child because she didn't want the responsibility than that isn't being a good mother. If she walked out on her child because she didn't want the responsibility then she really isn't their mother. Well technically she is but she doesn't act like it. A mother is someone you can talk to about anything and someone who loves you and cares for you and looks after you. I don't see how anyone can just walk out on their own child like that.
That's called delusional.
Maybe she is. Maybe she would've psychologically damaged that child beyond help if she'd kept it. Living with the child doesn't make you a good parent.
I don't know if she should be calling herself a ';good mother'; but maybe she made the right decision. If she couldn't give her child a good life, it probably was the right thing to do.
Lots of birth mothers give their children up for adoption, that doesn't make them bad people at all. Much better choice than abortion!
the reasons why a parent would walk out on a child are just to numeral to list.. and there are as many reasons as to why it would happen as there are stars in the heavens.. but I do believe that in a few cases it is the RIGHT thing to do.. as in being very young and knowing that the child would be better cared for by a more aged and financially able couple..or being abandoned by all family and have NO support group to help .... some times it is a heart breaking decision for the mother to give up her baby... look around you, see the abuse some kids take from *loving* parents... see the babys with black eyes or broken bones.... see the graves at the grave yard of the babies put there by *loving* parents..... which is worse ????? God bless
I know of somebody that had two children by different fathers and she is lazy, neglectful, irresponsible and out and out useless and she claims to be a good mother...... Her house is filthy and she doesn't pay any attention to the children. One of them is a beautiful little girl and she is neglected so much my mommy that she is starved for affection....does that make a good mother
No she's not a good mother..... unless for some really compelling reasons
Sounds like she did the kid a favor for not having to be involved with her loser self
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